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Something you don't know about bisexuality
People don't choose gay dating, straight dating, or bi dating. But that doesn't mean that we sometimes don't fade from one identity to another. For some people, this is more like a journey with multiple destinations. You may be at a certain crossroads and need to make a choice. You are not “on the road” somewhere; as long as you like it, you are somewhere and then you go somewhere else. However, the space between homosexuality and heterosexuality that many of us establish in our camps is constantly failing.
Many people work harder to establish themselves as "true" members of the gay community because bisexuality seems to be synonymous with lustfulness and randomness. We can't even agree on a common definition of bisexuality, so our identity is more illustrative than the easily digestible "gay" or "lesbian".
How do lesbian and bisexual dating differ?
We realized that the questionnaire should be as concise as possible. Long profiles on top gay dating sites are of no interest to anyone, everyone wants to move on to communication and discussion of upcoming meetings as soon as possible. Therefore, the profile in the application is balanced: on the one hand, it is short and concise, on the other hand, after reading it, you can form an idea of the person. We have been looking for this balance for a long time.
Also, during the discussion, we came to the conclusion that we should focus on the realities of a society hostile to LGBT people. Our application maintains a certain anonymity: we do not require profile confirmation and mandatory linking to social networks.
We have the opportunity to get to know each other only by gender. But homosexuals, like heterosexuals, prefer to start communication not with a discussion of sex, but with more general topics, it is important to establish an emotional connection.
When communicating with girls, we also realized that dating applications should be able to express ourselves, to emphasize some individual characteristics. In them, you can choose from several gender identity options. We use the concept of "gender" because it refers more to the social role of a person in society: how he perceives himself and how he wants to be perceived by others.
The meaningless stereotype is that we are not what we call us - before us homosexually or promised heterosexuality, we have already occupied the sex purgatory. This continues to see bisexuality as a stage of harmful warnings, and the gender of your long-term partner determines your “real” status that you are gay or lesbian.
But this is not how it works. If "phase" refers to "you were previously identified as homosexual", then heterosexuality is a more common stage than bisexuality. Despite this, the reputation of bisexuality is still poor. Even bisexuals are often discriminated against in the LGBT community, and the phenomenon has not been alleviated. But in the best Bi Chat Room, bisexual & gay & lesbian are treated equally.
35-year-old Gary* had a "moderate double body" at the age of 35. He is a part-time left-behind father and part-time security officer. He said he did not go to work and is not working for most of his friends and family. He said that his heterosexuality may be just a stage, so to speak, but it is not like the phrase "phased" as most people say, and not dismissing some of his life's years in some way.
"I don't think I'm always bisexual, either rejecting or avoiding or just not realizing it," Gary wrote to Mic in an e-mail. "I really think that I am just as direct as other people, and I gradually shift. Now I am not born now, but I am slowly moving to this place. I think this is not reasonable."
Perhaps you always ask yourself, "How do you make sure you are a bisexual?" Pierta Krabill, a 35-year-old librarian from southern Illinois, has been identified as bisexual, lesbian and queer at various times in her life since she appeared in her 20s.
Eventually Krabill met a man she was attracted to and then met another man who would become her husband. Today, she says, marking herself as queer or sexually fluid is the clearest way to describe how she experiences attractiveness. But this does not mean that twins or lesbians are not real. For Some important questions you must ask about bisexuals, you need to try it yourself.
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